Treat me like a chocolate cake, and I willl act like a chocolate cake.
... Ok, so this post actually has nothing to do with chocolate cakes. No, sadly I do not have some amazing, you must try this, recipe that I am going to shair with you. If you are hungry for chocolate cake however, I know there are many amazing food blogs out there. For those of you who are curious as to what on Earth I am talking about this time, stay right here.
Must you first act like a chocolate cake to be treated as such, or do you need to be treated like a chocolatee cake in order to feel like you can act like one? I'm sure all of you have heard such sayings as, "show respect and you'll be shown respect" and many other variations on the same theme, "act like X, and you'll be treated" or ... ECT. I have chosen to use chocolate cake because it is something we can all relate to.
What my question is, is which way around should some of these things go? Should you start acting like chocolate cake and expect soon after to be treated as one, or do you first need to feel like some one is treating you like a chocolate cake? Because quite frankly, there are some instances where if no one treats you like a chocolate cake and rather more like a chocolate chip cooky, then you are not going to really act like a chocolate cake. You are more apt to act like a cooky than you are a cake.
Of course then a person who is treated like a chocolate cake is not always garenteed to act like a chocolate cake; however there is lesss of a chance people will start treating a person like a chocolate cake just because they act like one.
I don't know, perhaps you have other oppinions? Or maybe they should just all work together, and it doesn't matter who starts it as long as both acting and treating happen?
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